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Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

317 posts

Posted Sat February 8, 2025 2:17amReport post

As of midnight oh conviction was spent and breathe, had the most emotional few days running up to this, from failed suicides losing job I never thought we would get here.

Time line

knock november 25 2022 1 phone taken rest checked in house

Charged november 26 2022

5 images 2 cat a and 3 cat b link from kik own cyber expert proved it had been deleted immediately app deleted immediately could only be retrieved by an expert, but fact is it was on his phone at some stage and he never reported it.

Ss visited once chatted to myself and our daughter no risk his bail condition was not to be around under 18 but he had no restrictions against our daughter, so this was easy to navigate, we never heard another thing from them.

First court appearance February 2023 numerous appearances until hearing novemeber 2023 part heard January 2024 found guilty sentenced February 2024

Sacked March 2024 new job one week later

November 2024 promoted to team leader

February 2025 conviction spent

I have just completed the form for right to be forgotten regarding the article, his supervision manager and police liaison have both given there details regarding no risk to public and it's not In the publics interest for this to be available, I know the small town we live in for some small minded people they won't forget but we move on with our lives, I have learned so much from this experience mostly that being empathetic towards others.

For those in this journey my heart breaks for each and everyone of you, take care of you and yours xx

Crushed

Member since
July 2024

130 posts

Posted Sat February 8, 2025 10:24amReport post

That's amazing, I bet that feels so good. Pleased for you both xx

rainyday52

Member since
April 2023

506 posts

Posted Sat February 8, 2025 8:27pmReport post

Thank you - hope for us hopless ones :)

Buckets

Member since
October 2023

81 posts

Posted Sun February 9, 2025 7:36pmReport post

Can you clarify how the sentence is spent. As I thought it was six years from the end of a sentence, but happy to be corrected if that isn't the case for all.



My person finished their suspended sentence in 2021, but has to declare the conviction for another six years. But does have a ten year SOR and SHPO, so not sure if this counts as needing to disclose even after spent conviction.

Inthemoment

Member since
February 2023

374 posts

Posted Sun February 9, 2025 8:10pmReport post

If they have a SHPO it's not spent until the end of the SHPO. Not everyone gets a SHPO so if you get eg a community order of a year without a SHPO it would be spent at the end of that 1 year order, even if still on the SOR

Lifeisover

Member since
January 2025

92 posts

Posted Sun February 9, 2025 8:14pmReport post

How do they decide who gets a SHPO

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

317 posts

Posted Sun February 9, 2025 8:58pmReport post

My oh didn't get an shpo it was the 1 year register and 1 year supervision the liaison officer confirmed that's it over he will remain on the system but he will be archived they said

Inthemoment

Member since
February 2023

374 posts

Posted Sun February 9, 2025 9:47pmReport post

The judge decides who gets a SHPO. For very low level and/or historic offences with no evidence of continues offending a SHPO can sometimes be avoided, however this is rare

EllBee

Member since
April 2022

162 posts

Posted Mon February 10, 2025 8:40amReport post

I am genuinely really happy you are at the other end of this now, and you can move on.

I do however find it incredible that my OH had the knock 9 months before you, and we still don't know if his case has been sent to the CPS yet. Unbelievable......

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

317 posts

Posted Mon February 10, 2025 9:34pmReport post

Ellbee that is crazy they checked all devices but said they had to seize his phone returned the next day to say phone had been checked and was being charged were in Scotland

EllBee

Member since
April 2022

162 posts

Posted Mon February 10, 2025 11:29pmReport post

It does seem to be much quicker in Scotland, why can't England and Wales follow suit? It's such a mess.
it's still absolutely hideous for you and your daughter, no one should go through this at all, but it's awful having the whole ordeal being stretched out for so long. Life is on hold....

PrairieMom

Member since
May 2024

98 posts

Posted Tue February 11, 2025 3:09amReport post

I'm so happy for you. Thank you for sharing the good news with us. Wishing you all the best going forward.

Nickylara

Member since
November 2023

17 posts

Posted Tue February 11, 2025 8:38amReport post

I'm so pleased for you. What a horrendous torture. Move on and enjoy the rest of your lives xxx

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

860 posts

Posted Tue February 11, 2025 10:50pmReport post

How wonderful to be on the other side of this now, I'm so pleased for you and wish you all the very best.