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I left my person 3 years ago on the day of the knock. I moved out and he recently began a new relationship. My problem is although I will never go back i do not think he should be in a new relationship at least until everything is done (court ect) and he is able to be truthful with who ever he is with.
I feel uneasy that I know what he has done but don't feel it is my responsibility to say anything as I am only just myself getting my life slowly back on track. It has been a long hell on earth 3 years for me.
I feel uneasy that I know what he has done but don't feel it is my responsibility to say anything as I am only just myself getting my life slowly back on track. It has been a long hell on earth 3 years for me.
Hi, like you say, it's not your responsibility, it's his. They'll find out soon enough. X
Thank you X
It's also possible they know I guess? Although they'll only know his version at this stage. Personally I would very very much want to know. It also presumably becomes a safeguarding issue if the woman in question has kids or young relatives she sees a lot of.
I know this is quite a bit of an old post and I hope you have been able to reconcile your feelings on the situation. It must be difficult seeing him move on seemingly as if nothing has occured whilst you still feel that you are picking up the pieces. I always feel a bit hurt when my exs move on and that's just through a normal breakup! So I think I would also be very hurt in this situation.
I guess like it has already been said, it is not your responsibility to share that information and it may be that he has been fully transparent about the situation and his new partner is in a position that she can see past the charges/offences. Or it could be that he is hiding what's going on but that's up to him. I do think that everyone is entitled to move on and start afresh....and hopefully you will be in a position to feel able to love and be loved in the near future - though I know it must feel that you got the rough end of the bargain. Take care x
I guess like it has already been said, it is not your responsibility to share that information and it may be that he has been fully transparent about the situation and his new partner is in a position that she can see past the charges/offences. Or it could be that he is hiding what's going on but that's up to him. I do think that everyone is entitled to move on and start afresh....and hopefully you will be in a position to feel able to love and be loved in the near future - though I know it must feel that you got the rough end of the bargain. Take care x
Thank you loveactually for your reply it is appreciated. I'm starting to realise I need to let him get on with his life so I can move on with mine.
I highly doubt he has told his new relationship about his past as he never told me but, again I'm reminding myself it's not my business anymore.
A peaceful content life is all I am aiming for now .
Thank you again X
I highly doubt he has told his new relationship about his past as he never told me but, again I'm reminding myself it's not my business anymore.
A peaceful content life is all I am aiming for now .
Thank you again X