Did you move if it hit the media
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Wondering how many decided to move away/moved after to avoid falling outs from the media?
My ex moved a long time ago but unfortunately it is going to trial local and ultimately would be published local to me so I would be dealing with the main all out.
My main concern would be the impact on my son, he shouldn't have to deal with ANY fall out and I will protect him and shield him to prevent this. Even if this means selling up and moving house/school/area.
I would hate for my son to face backlash from school friends/community at such a vital stage in his life developing his personality and long term mental health.
With high school on the horizon it would also impact moving to a school in a vital academic time.
I know we won't know until the actual court if it hits the media and if we have any fall out so having a good overthink!
My ex moved a long time ago but unfortunately it is going to trial local and ultimately would be published local to me so I would be dealing with the main all out.
My main concern would be the impact on my son, he shouldn't have to deal with ANY fall out and I will protect him and shield him to prevent this. Even if this means selling up and moving house/school/area.
I would hate for my son to face backlash from school friends/community at such a vital stage in his life developing his personality and long term mental health.
With high school on the horizon it would also impact moving to a school in a vital academic time.
I know we won't know until the actual court if it hits the media and if we have any fall out so having a good overthink!
I feel your pain love just wanted to say ours never hit media at all so there is hope x
We didn't move, my daughter was in high school when it hit the media one person said something to her but school reacted immediately and her friends fully supported her, yesterday I did a fundraiser for my workplace in local community centre I was so nervous I sold out in less than an hour and nothing said to me at all
We didn't move away after my sons case hit the media and his children haven't received any backlash. My son lives with us and my husband and I provide the supervised contact for his children. We tag along while my son and his children are out and about in our local community at weekends and school holidays so the children can enjoy the same events and activities as any other child.
I had my property damaged and burgled but I stayed put.
I put a brave face on it but now really couldn't give 2 shits what the neighbours think.
I put a brave face on it but now really couldn't give 2 shits what the neighbours think.
I moved simply because of the backlash I was getting mainly from my ex-husband he posted on social media about my OH and what he done in the past so I'm dreading to think what's going to happen when it comes out that he has reoffended whether I will move again or not I don't know as I now like the area I'm living in and my neighbours xx
Our person is our son. He is now serving a five year sentence,but eligible for release after two years in Feb 27. We have decide to move from Middle England to the South West,for a more relaxed life. Our present home is well established after 30 years but it is not the same after his media exposure. We know he cannot return there & are still deciding whether we will offer him a home after release. We will have two years of freedom & being anonymous!
"Our" case was on the press and on Police social media. I didn't have the choice to move as I live in social housing. I was threatened with eviction though. Total nightmare. And he's reoffended so I'm going to go through it all again imminently. Would I move if I could? YES.
I would recommend moving. My person is my dad and his first media report was a newspaper in December during the plea hearing. Everything was fine until a further report after the sentencing and he received a community order and SOPO. Then yesterday he woke to find the front and back of his terraced house spraypainted.
He was already planning to move nearer me (other side of the country) now we have to speed things up and work out how to remove graffiti and sell the house admin this further stress. I wish we could have sold the house earlier.
He was already planning to move nearer me (other side of the country) now we have to speed things up and work out how to remove graffiti and sell the house admin this further stress. I wish we could have sold the house earlier.