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A different kind of strength

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LisaMargeMaggie

Member since
July 2024

184 posts

Following on from a few of us bemoaning our weight gain thanks to the trauma of what we're going through, I was thinking this morning about the way our bodies are still incredible even if they aren't functioning / looking how we'd like.

I might not be able to run a marathon at the moment but so far I've survived 9 months of this living nightmare, which is a real endurance feat!

Your quads might not be as defined as they used to be, but look what you've carried and for how long. You are all so strong.

You might be horrified or dismayed at your weight, but your body is still incredible, wonderful, unique and constantly doing amazing things to keep you going. Be kind to yourself!

Hugs to all x

Posted Tue March 11, 2025 7:36amReport post

Poppet

Member since
February 2025

100 posts

All the applause for this!! Xx

Posted Tue March 11, 2025 9:44amReport post

PrairieMom

Member since
May 2024

117 posts

I love this message. So very true.

Posted Tue March 11, 2025 12:42pmReport post

Stan cat

Member since
October 2024

81 posts

Well said thank you for your loving and kind words xxx

Posted Tue March 11, 2025 12:50pmReport post

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

367 posts

Wonderful words there is always something to be grateful for my daughter taught me that at the start of the journey, she bought me a gratitude book and wanted me to write something down every day, I may be bigger but I am a lot stronger also and I am grateful for that

Posted Tue March 11, 2025 5:03pmReport post

LisaMargeMaggie

Member since
July 2024

184 posts

Gratitude is so hard to find and sometimes feels forced, but I know it's important.
Today's therapy session focused on my endurance, strength, mindset, growth and a newfound confidence in myself as a mother. I always felt somewhat surplus to requirements as I was 'the emotional one' and struggled with big intense organised days out eg to a national trust or beach or water park. Now I can let my children just 'be', comfortable with a bit of boredom and not too much structure. We do stuff, but it's mostly spontaneous, led by our mood on the day. That's something my children have never experienced before and theyre flourishing.

Posted Tue March 11, 2025 7:02pmReport post

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