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Hi Typoon,
I didn't just want to pass your message. I feel exactly the same as you and I a. 2 years in now. This situation is something you would never wish on anyone but you are in the right place for help and support. If you ever want to have a general chat always there to speak (even if it's just to clean your head.) Hope your doing well otherwise xx
I didn't just want to pass your message. I feel exactly the same as you and I a. 2 years in now. This situation is something you would never wish on anyone but you are in the right place for help and support. If you ever want to have a general chat always there to speak (even if it's just to clean your head.) Hope your doing well otherwise xx
Hi typhoon
so sorry you're in this nightmare. It does feel like that at first. I still can't get over what has happened but it does eventually start to sink in; it's a massive shock to the system at first but you do manage to cope with the knowledge and start to process it. I joke that I'm probably going to be in therapy for the rest of my life; but I take each day at a time. It's always awful when you're in the midst of it. I'm hoping that one day things will calm down, I'll find my new normal and can work on fixing my hurt and processing what has happened. For now I'm in survival mode and just trying to get to the end of this process whatever it will be, ensuring I protect my child from whatever the fallout is when it hits. The uncertainty and long waits for updates is awful but I'm still standing.
There's a saying I've seen that helps me that I hope might help someone else;
on particularly rough days, when I think I can't possibly endure, I remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good
so sorry you're in this nightmare. It does feel like that at first. I still can't get over what has happened but it does eventually start to sink in; it's a massive shock to the system at first but you do manage to cope with the knowledge and start to process it. I joke that I'm probably going to be in therapy for the rest of my life; but I take each day at a time. It's always awful when you're in the midst of it. I'm hoping that one day things will calm down, I'll find my new normal and can work on fixing my hurt and processing what has happened. For now I'm in survival mode and just trying to get to the end of this process whatever it will be, ensuring I protect my child from whatever the fallout is when it hits. The uncertainty and long waits for updates is awful but I'm still standing.
There's a saying I've seen that helps me that I hope might help someone else;
on particularly rough days, when I think I can't possibly endure, I remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good