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Hi All,
Just need an outlet as my brain is in frazzle mode at the moment. My ex and LG dad, got the phone call yesterday to say that they are charging him and he has an appointment next Wednesday to speak about going to court.
He said all the OIC said to him is he is being charged with Making and she is going to go through everything with him next week.
He had a severe mental breakdown after this call. Started asking me loads of questions I don't know the answers to so I told him his best bet is to speak to his solicitor as she probably knows the answers to his questions as she deals with this daily as she is a sexual offence solicitor.
Anyways long story short, he tried to call her, kept missing each other due to dodgy signal issues and now got to speak to her today.
However now my brains wizzing and I just feel very alone as I don't really have much support and also bringing up our 1 year old alone is hard with all this other stuff going on too.
I am now just worried bout the future which was 1 of my major worries anyway but I was able to push this out of my head previously, but it's back again.
He said it was for all categories. However this is his 1st offence, and he is seeing a counsellor who specialises in these kind if things he is also on a lot of mental health meds and he is on suicide watch as he has tried to before.
Anyway sorry for spreading my brain all over here. I'm just looking for any one with any positives or anything that can lesson my brain feeling like it wants to pop. I'm just worried about all thus affecting my LG and her non existent relationship with him due to what he has done. Just feeling super stressed and alone, this has been the longest 2 years of my life and super stressful. So thanks for reading if you got this far x
Just need an outlet as my brain is in frazzle mode at the moment. My ex and LG dad, got the phone call yesterday to say that they are charging him and he has an appointment next Wednesday to speak about going to court.
He said all the OIC said to him is he is being charged with Making and she is going to go through everything with him next week.
He had a severe mental breakdown after this call. Started asking me loads of questions I don't know the answers to so I told him his best bet is to speak to his solicitor as she probably knows the answers to his questions as she deals with this daily as she is a sexual offence solicitor.
Anyways long story short, he tried to call her, kept missing each other due to dodgy signal issues and now got to speak to her today.
However now my brains wizzing and I just feel very alone as I don't really have much support and also bringing up our 1 year old alone is hard with all this other stuff going on too.
I am now just worried bout the future which was 1 of my major worries anyway but I was able to push this out of my head previously, but it's back again.
He said it was for all categories. However this is his 1st offence, and he is seeing a counsellor who specialises in these kind if things he is also on a lot of mental health meds and he is on suicide watch as he has tried to before.
Anyway sorry for spreading my brain all over here. I'm just looking for any one with any positives or anything that can lesson my brain feeling like it wants to pop. I'm just worried about all thus affecting my LG and her non existent relationship with him due to what he has done. Just feeling super stressed and alone, this has been the longest 2 years of my life and super stressful. So thanks for reading if you got this far x
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Moonbeam big hugs to you. I think you should definitely call the helpline. They're fantastic for giving advice and just listening if that's what you need. Xx
Thanks Poppet, I have spoken to them before and went round in a massive circle. Have had a couple of people reach out to me and haven't felt alone from it. So as much as it sucks, there isn't much that can happen at the moment. Just another waiting game to find out more information.
Thanks you for always responding lovely x
Thanks you for always responding lovely x