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Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2473 posts

Evening lovlies x

I hope you are all keeping as well as can be

I am so glad we have got to the end of the week honestly work has been full on, my brain hurts! long days with lots of hours I am shattered!

Not long been home, managed to get the ironing done ( exciting I know) just sat down with a latte, I was tempted to pick up a bottle of wine on my way home :-)

But as I have a vist tomorrow with HC I thought I better not so the latte will have to do!

Really looking forward to seeing him it seems ages ago since my last visit (it is 4 weeks tomorrow) we should have lots to catch up on and of course he has lots to eat haha

Then I have the furbaby tomorrow evening as my daughter and her boyfriend are out ( lucky them) I hope the weather is kind as will be lovely just getting some fresh air and take in the beautiful scenery, nothing to think about so definitely a good thing x

I hope you can all find something nice to do for yourself over the weekend

Love sent as always xx

Posted Fri March 21, 2025 5:14pmReport post

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2690 posts

Hi all - lots of cuddles for you tomo my good friend Upset plus loads of grub..... hope all goes well x

ive had a good week - gosh where does all this time go - it just races by. My son got excellent feedback from his treatment prog and is sounding so confident these days..... so proud of how hard he's worked, he's so shy - so opening up must have been a struggle, but it HAD to be done....

As for me - I'm ok.

Posted Fri March 21, 2025 5:44pmReport post

Webb89

Member since
July 2022

502 posts

Hello friday check in

Week gone ok, just keeping busy. Weekend i have a few social events, like a bus you either get none, last weekend, or loads this weekend.

Having my hair done tomorrow and going to a party. Working Sunday and then meal out. I have a couple of days off next week so that will be nice.

I hope everyone manages, even if a small amount of time, to breathe and chill. Sending love to everyone. Xx

Posted Fri March 21, 2025 11:14pmReport post

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2690 posts

Come on ladies, there's more than three of us, we need this weekly dose of positivity!!!!!!!!

Posted Sat March 22, 2025 7:14amReport post

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1149 posts

Hello Friday check in,

a pretty mixed bag the last couple of weeks. I'm waiting on paperwork from ss to officially confirm that my partner can return home and have unsupervised contact with our daughter. Hopefully I'll be able to write a post detailing our journey over this week. Sending love and strength to you all xxx

Posted Sat March 22, 2025 7:25amReport post

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

352 posts

A mixed week with me, busy at work and busy at home, oh when got new job after conviction chose to work back shift to enable us all a little space but now it feels like we never see eachother, I am changing my hours at work will be off 2 mornings a week which will at least enable us to spend some time even just to take the dog a walk and he has agreed to only work every second Saturday as overtime, he has been working so much he still feels guilty what was spent on solicitor and expert and desperately wants to make the money up, for me it's done just glad we had it there in the first place, our daughter is 16 next week she doesn't want a party just wants a meal out with ourselves and her bf so that will be good.

Sun is shining and I am off until Tuesday so a relaxing couple of days off, have a good one all xx

Posted Sat March 22, 2025 1:56pmReport post

Pinkey2019

Member since
July 2022

81 posts

Hi everyone I have had a good week it wasn't that bad I am also really happy the fact my husband was allowed to come to parents evening and he will be going to watch his sons school asambily which we can't wait finally something feels normal in our lives the little one will be soo happy to see his dad . He also had a lovely birthday which he enjoyed can't belive he is 6 when all this happens he was only 9 mounths time has gone fast hope you all are fine xxx

Posted Sat March 22, 2025 2:31pmReport post

Skysie98

Member since
May 2024

33 posts

Struggling a lot at the moment.

Really thought having our daughter back and him slowly moving home would be a really good thing and that we were able to move on with our lives.



Turns out people in our town just can't let us be.

Had people follow us today and ring police due to welfare concern for our little one..instead of just talking to me they followed us and made me fearful of my life.

We rang police ourselves and didn't feel safe walking back to my place with them following us. Police had no issue as he has no restrictions with contact with our daughter just personal care and doesn't live with us yet ( need a bigger place)

So fed up of this shit! Just want to be able to move on..

Not the first time now this happened either

Trying to move but council won't up my band despite the issues. And despite the fact I am now mentally really struggling.

I don't drive and live in a 1 bed flat with my little girl so am struggling with such little space and basically not being able to go out without feeling on edge.

His offence that was in the media was nearly 10 years ago now!

Wish people would leave us alone.

Posted Sun March 23, 2025 10:31pm
Edited Sun March 23, 2025 10:32pmReport post

Upset mother

Member since
March 2025

32 posts

First time I have joined this thread. It's nice to positivity in all this madness we are going through ????. Went for a nice walk with daughter and OH on Saturday ( having to supervise contact obviously!). Took her swimming today and bracing myself for a **** shower next week. I've put in a complaint about my OH's probation officer, I'm chasing up a second stage complaint to SS, I've got a solicitor involved and I'm waiting for them to draft their initial letter to SS to get a move on with the CPP. There has been no progress with it since August last year.

Posted Sun March 23, 2025 11:22pmReport post

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