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Hello ladies.
Fingers crossed this week is the start of either a new chapter in your lives or getting closer to the end and some answer's.
Sending Big ((hugs)) xx
Fingers crossed this week is the start of either a new chapter in your lives or getting closer to the end and some answer's.
Sending Big ((hugs)) xx
Thanks Chelsea.
I feel like the elephant in the room is wearing a tablecloth and pretending quite convincingly to be a sideboard, and we're mostly sort of not looking directly at it... but any day now the tablecloth is going to be whipped off again (each call from the OIC has this effect) and it'll be a difficult unsettled time. We're waiting for second interview, OIC is confident it'll be be before June.
I feel like the elephant in the room is wearing a tablecloth and pretending quite convincingly to be a sideboard, and we're mostly sort of not looking directly at it... but any day now the tablecloth is going to be whipped off again (each call from the OIC has this effect) and it'll be a difficult unsettled time. We're waiting for second interview, OIC is confident it'll be be before June.
Hiya Lisa.
Fingers crossed you get your answers you are looking for and hopefully they get somewhere.
Big ((hugs)) x
Fingers crossed you get your answers you are looking for and hopefully they get somewhere.
Big ((hugs)) x
Thank you. It's exhausting being this chronically severely anxious. I feel like my blood is turning to vinegar in my veins sometimes.
Hiya Lisa.
I know what you mean. When we where going through it I couldn't settle always on edge and just awaiting news.
Strange thing was when he went for the second interview and we knew what we where going to face it made everything ok. In a strange way.
xx
I know what you mean. When we where going through it I couldn't settle always on edge and just awaiting news.
Strange thing was when he went for the second interview and we knew what we where going to face it made everything ok. In a strange way.
xx
I totally get that. I think once I know what we're dealing with I'll be able to plan a bit further ahead. Oh and how did it become 'we'?! I did nothing wrong. I was a bloody brilliant wife - fun, affectionate, funny, not a bad looking woman. If he'd just been chatting to adult women there'd be no 'we' - the extreme nature of the misbehaviour somehow makes it my problem too!
Hiya Lisa.
I know what you mean by questioning yourself and I did the same. I wanted to be alone and clear my head and think.
No we didn't do anything wrong and yes I felt undervalued and started to think I wasn't good enough. But then you think do you wanna stay and fight together.
At the end of the day. Yes he's a idiot but he's my idiot.
xx
I know what you mean by questioning yourself and I did the same. I wanted to be alone and clear my head and think.
No we didn't do anything wrong and yes I felt undervalued and started to think I wasn't good enough. But then you think do you wanna stay and fight together.
At the end of the day. Yes he's a idiot but he's my idiot.
xx
Hi Chelsea,
Thanks so much for reaching out and checking up on everyone, it means so much. Mondays usually aren't good days for me, as we've usually tried to do something together to take our minds off it all over the weekend. If its been nice, or just something small we usually do together, I'm so sad the day after as those intrusive thoughts of us seperating creep in and slap me round the face, along with the knowledge that this process is going to probably take a long time. Ah well, soon be Tuesday and at least it's sunny today xx
Thanks so much for reaching out and checking up on everyone, it means so much. Mondays usually aren't good days for me, as we've usually tried to do something together to take our minds off it all over the weekend. If its been nice, or just something small we usually do together, I'm so sad the day after as those intrusive thoughts of us seperating creep in and slap me round the face, along with the knowledge that this process is going to probably take a long time. Ah well, soon be Tuesday and at least it's sunny today xx
Hiya Poppet.
Thank you for the reply.
Yes Monday is a sometimes stressful day what with it being the start of the new week and the start of the turmoil again.
Just hoping people get some answers this week.
xx
Thank you for the reply.
Yes Monday is a sometimes stressful day what with it being the start of the new week and the start of the turmoil again.
Just hoping people get some answers this week.
xx