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Lucy from Stop it Now!

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September 2018

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Hello and welcome to all our new users!

We’re saddened that so many people find themselves in the difficult circumstances this forum is designed for, and we recognise how challenging it can be to face something like this. While it’s not a situation anyone would want to be in, we’re glad that you’ve found this space where you can seek support and connect with others who understand.

This forum is a safe and supportive environment where you can seek support and ask questions without judgement. You might have already browsed through the different folders and found support in that, and you might have considered posting for the first time. If you’d like to introduce yourself to our other forum members, this is a good place to do this. You don’t have to share more than you feel comfortable with, and there’s no pressure to participate beyond what feels right for you. We know that taking the first step to share your situation can feel difficult, but introducing yourself here can help reduce feelings of isolation and allow other forum members to offer you some direct support. Whether you choose to share a lot or just a little, this space is here for you to take things at your own pace. We want to emphasise that there is absolutely no pressure to share anything if you do not feel ready or comfortable to do so.

We also want to acknowledge that navigating the early days can be incredibly difficult. It’s normal to experience a wide range of emotions, and everyone processes these circumstances in their own way. During this time, it’s important to look after yourself in whatever ways feel helpful, whether that’s taking time to rest, seeking support, or finding moments of calm when you can. You can find some self-care advice on our website, or by clicking here. Additionally, you can find a page on our forum with a list of sources of support and advice, here.

Although this folder is primarily a space for new members to introduce themselves, we encourage those who have been part of the forum for some time to join in and offer support where they feel able. If you’ve been through this process and feel ready to share your insights or simply offer a kind word, your support can make a real difference to someone who is just beginning to navigate this difficult journey.

Kind regards,

The Forum Team

Posted Fri March 28, 2025 10:34am
Edited by moderator Fri March 28, 2025 1:48pmReport post

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