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Lrf

Member since
July 2024

109 posts

its my first mother's day alone and I cannot stop crying, I don't have a mum myself to see and my children are too young really to have done anything for me, but I don't mind that anyway its not about the things but I actually don't know why I can't stop crying. I just wish my life was normal and not this mess....

Posted Sun March 30, 2025 1:18pmReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

699 posts

Hi, my Mum died when I was 5. I'm 54 now. I have 4 adult children. 3 of them left me due to stuff that happened after the knock. But my son, who is Autistic and doesn't really like formal event days such as Mothers Day, got me two really thoughtful gifts which he left for me to find this morning. I'm determined to get through this day and not allow terrible wrongs that have been done to me in the past, get to me today. I'm so sorry today is difficult for you. Thankfully, tomorrow will arrive regardless and "normality" will resume. Wishing you all the very best. X

Posted Sun March 30, 2025 2:45pmReport post

mum1982H

Member since
September 2022

48 posts

it didn't even cross my mind that mothers day was what had brought on my sudden downward spiralling mood.

My 3 children from a previous relationship spoilt me rotten but this was my first mothers day with our only child. 7 weeks old and with social services stone walling any attempts to arrange supervised access Dad is yet to meet her.

I too spent the majority of my day in tears. My family arranged a meal which I couldn't attend feeling so rubbish.

I really hope we can all pass this off as just a bad day. sending strenghth

Posted Mon March 31, 2025 2:19amReport post

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