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My daughter is additional support needs and is very close to her dad. Always has been since she was a baby. As much as I can comfort her, he is the one she goes to. Our first SW questioned me over that saying was she always this way? Why is she that way with him? Why is she standing with in that photo? It was the 4 of us at a family wedding and we literally grabbed them for a photo before they ran off again lol. Apparently being a daddy's girl is inappropriate to them. The new SW said they are daddy's girl and completely understand.
Husband is in court tomorrow for preliminary hearing, after being forced into pleading guilty, with a small chance of being remanded (he's been on bail since April last year). On the day he was arrested the police told him they knew he was of no risk. So I can't see him being detained. I assume the lawyer tells this to all his clients as a precaution kind of thing.
I am so worried about the impact this will have on both my children. Especially if he's detained. I know if he comes home SS will be all over us again and I really can't be bothered with that lot as we were told it might be another new SW whose opinion will no doubt be different again ????
Husband is in court tomorrow for preliminary hearing, after being forced into pleading guilty, with a small chance of being remanded (he's been on bail since April last year). On the day he was arrested the police told him they knew he was of no risk. So I can't see him being detained. I assume the lawyer tells this to all his clients as a precaution kind of thing.
I am so worried about the impact this will have on both my children. Especially if he's detained. I know if he comes home SS will be all over us again and I really can't be bothered with that lot as we were told it might be another new SW whose opinion will no doubt be different again ????
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Hi,
I'm sorry that your post got missed. How was the preliminary hearing? It's hard isn't it being in a situation where normal parent child relationships are scrutinised? I'm glad the new social worker understands that some children naturally gravitate towards one parent more than the other xxx
I'm sorry that your post got missed. How was the preliminary hearing? It's hard isn't it being in a situation where normal parent child relationships are scrutinised? I'm glad the new social worker understands that some children naturally gravitate towards one parent more than the other xxx