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I really don't know how people get through this unknown for so long. Each week that goes by it feels worse and more unfair.
Whole family just getting by not living, hanging on while our children's childhoods pass us by.
How can they leave people waiting so long?
Already nearly six months have gone by!
I honestly can't do this much longer, I want to move forward and plan and have a life that isn't in limbo. All I see is people waiting for years. I can't do it much longer. There is no point in being alive to live this way.
Whole family just getting by not living, hanging on while our children's childhoods pass us by.
How can they leave people waiting so long?
Already nearly six months have gone by!
I honestly can't do this much longer, I want to move forward and plan and have a life that isn't in limbo. All I see is people waiting for years. I can't do it much longer. There is no point in being alive to live this way.
I know exactly what you mean. 8+ years since the first knock, 3+ years since the second, sentencing due soon - again - but it's been adjourned 4 times the night before so far. So every few weeks, for months and months and months, I'm paralysed by fear about the press and the Police FB pages. It's no life. It's an existence. I'd give anything to turn the clock back and walk away the first time and stay away. Wishing you all the very best. X
We are 8.5 months in and waiting. Last update was devices were due to start being checked on 28th March for our son. There is only is phone, tablet and Xbox.
Like many life feels on hold. Wondering, going through things over and over in my head. Having every protection in place but with not knowing how he's supposed to have accessed something I'm left wondering am I doing enough.
My child's life is passing him by and on hold whilst we wait.
Like many life feels on hold. Wondering, going through things over and over in my head. Having every protection in place but with not knowing how he's supposed to have accessed something I'm left wondering am I doing enough.
My child's life is passing him by and on hold whilst we wait.
I am with you.
Knock was 3 years and 2 months ago.
Second interview 13 months ago. Nothing. Nada. Niente. silence.
Don't even know if it's been sent off to the CPS yet.
SO SO SO frustrating.....
How long do we have to sodding well wait?
Have we been NFA'd and not told?
Who knows....
it's nothing short of cruel.
Hang in there Xxx
Knock was 3 years and 2 months ago.
Second interview 13 months ago. Nothing. Nada. Niente. silence.
Don't even know if it's been sent off to the CPS yet.
SO SO SO frustrating.....
How long do we have to sodding well wait?
Have we been NFA'd and not told?
Who knows....
it's nothing short of cruel.
Hang in there Xxx
I have hardly any hope. It's the size of a grain of sand. I get it from seeing the women on here who have made it to the other side and found a way to move forward.
I try to protect that tiny grain of sand as much as possible, but I do drop it frequently. And sometimes I want to lash it as far away as possible and just wallow
I think we're in the trenches right now, but we have to keep going to at least see what the other side offers.
I can't really get my head around the future. I'm terrified if I'm honest. No matter what happens my life has changed forever..I've changed. I'll never be who I was before. It's all terrifying, sad, and incredibly bleak.. But I just keep hoping that at some point it will be something other than bleak and terrifying..I think it will always be sad.i can't imagine not feeling sad about how it's all turned out..
The limbo, waiting, the feeling of impending doom is awful. Keep posting and reaching out.
You're not alone in how you feel.
I try to protect that tiny grain of sand as much as possible, but I do drop it frequently. And sometimes I want to lash it as far away as possible and just wallow
I think we're in the trenches right now, but we have to keep going to at least see what the other side offers.
I can't really get my head around the future. I'm terrified if I'm honest. No matter what happens my life has changed forever..I've changed. I'll never be who I was before. It's all terrifying, sad, and incredibly bleak.. But I just keep hoping that at some point it will be something other than bleak and terrifying..I think it will always be sad.i can't imagine not feeling sad about how it's all turned out..
The limbo, waiting, the feeling of impending doom is awful. Keep posting and reaching out.
You're not alone in how you feel.