Police Arrogance GOOD NEWS UPDATE
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Got told today that they are never wrong so my husband must be lying to me. This stuff never happens by accident and people never ever plead guilty just to get it over and done with.
Actually can't believe how much they lie. They say things and when you say it back they say the didn't.
Actually can't believe how much they lie. They say things and when you say it back they say the didn't.
Was this a police officer who said this to you?
To be told this is gaslighting.
Police CAN be wrong and make mistakes/do things they shouldn’t do.
We’ve been lied to countless times during this and been treated like dirt.
My OH pleaded guilty despite insisting he isn’t for several reasons. The justice system makes it so that it is very hard to plead not guilty unless you have all the time and money in the world.
I can only imagine how many other people plead guilty because they’ve been coerced and bullied by police. The justice system looks after their own and puts anyone trying to defend themselves at a disadvantage.
We see first hand the corruption that goes on. To try and downplay and invalidate someone who is a victim of it is truly disgusting.
Sending so much love and support xx
To be told this is gaslighting.
Police CAN be wrong and make mistakes/do things they shouldn’t do.
We’ve been lied to countless times during this and been treated like dirt.
My OH pleaded guilty despite insisting he isn’t for several reasons. The justice system makes it so that it is very hard to plead not guilty unless you have all the time and money in the world.
I can only imagine how many other people plead guilty because they’ve been coerced and bullied by police. The justice system looks after their own and puts anyone trying to defend themselves at a disadvantage.
We see first hand the corruption that goes on. To try and downplay and invalidate someone who is a victim of it is truly disgusting.
Sending so much love and support xx
Yes a police officer told me outright if I knew the full truth I wouldn't be saying the things I'm saying. But she couldn't tell me the truth because my husband is an adult.
So I made my husband call as I was distraught wanting to know what he was lying about while I was on speaker and ask her what it was she couldn't tell me that she wanted to and she said it wasn't anything specific to him just a generic thing they say.
So I made my husband call as I was distraught wanting to know what he was lying about while I was on speaker and ask her what it was she couldn't tell me that she wanted to and she said it wasn't anything specific to him just a generic thing they say.
She said the information they get is accurate and never wrong and people don't ever click or go onto it by mistake.
The Police bullied me and gaslit me for several weeks following the knock wanting me to give permission for them to take DNA from one of my family members. I can't go into details here but I knew they were barking up the wrong tree, which was proven later. The damage emotionally to my family if I'd let them do what they wanted would've been immense. And don't get me started on the lies and drama stoked up by SS's!
Wow, I didn't know you had to have super human powers to join the police! What a super power never being wrong must be!
Perhaps they get that in place of humility and compassion?
Sorry, I'm on one today. In all seriousness try not to let it get to you. I mean, it's a very rigid, immature and potentially dangerous stance isn't it it? For a person who holds so much power? "I know everything...I'm always right" It makes them sound childish, completely lacking in compassion and not very good at their job.
Even if they think that way professionalism and humility should prevent them from actually saying it.
If I was that bad at my job, I probably wouldn't broadcast it like that.
Perhaps they get that in place of humility and compassion?
Sorry, I'm on one today. In all seriousness try not to let it get to you. I mean, it's a very rigid, immature and potentially dangerous stance isn't it it? For a person who holds so much power? "I know everything...I'm always right" It makes them sound childish, completely lacking in compassion and not very good at their job.
Even if they think that way professionalism and humility should prevent them from actually saying it.
If I was that bad at my job, I probably wouldn't broadcast it like that.
They have no compassion I told them this they manipulate and play games with no regard for the damage they do.
There is no such thing in this country as innocent until proven guilty. Even if NFA / person has done nothing it will show up on a DBS check forever how is that fair?
I've said in many times. As a family we never had any dealings with the police and I held respect for them.
Now - oh no - they twist things - wear false comforting smiles but all they want to do is nail a conviction and in reality don't give a damn about the devastation they leave behind.
Be weiry.
Now - oh no - they twist things - wear false comforting smiles but all they want to do is nail a conviction and in reality don't give a damn about the devastation they leave behind.
Be weiry.
I keep telling them my children matter too. They are in limbo because the system is broken. They told me they couldn't find out where the phone was in the queue and after the conversation they actually rang around and found out. They lie all the time.
Keystone cops!
I contacted our local force regarding the fact that they had failed to follow the law relating to freedom of information, the email reply I got outright stated that the police were to busy to comply with the law. When I asked if I could use that as an excuse in future if I ever got pulled in by the police for something I didn't get a reply lol.
Wow I'd like to think it's incompetence but I think it's more corruption. They can't get the real true offenders so they will happily destroy the lives of people trying their best to get their numbers better.
So my husbands phone came back and absolutely nothing illegal on it at all so we are NFA.
However the policeman still can't stop and said to my OH I know what I think but I can't prove it and I'll be back to see you again.
He is the most horrible man. My husband admitted to a porn addiction so obviously at some point he has been somewhere that has flagged his name. If he had been downloading, viewing there would have been traces on his phone he's had it for years without upgrading and is not tech savvy didn't even know what cache was.
Even with an NFA they can still stop him working if they decide to show it as his career needs enhanced.
But at least he is home! Kids are over the moon and most of the worry has gone.
However the policeman still can't stop and said to my OH I know what I think but I can't prove it and I'll be back to see you again.
He is the most horrible man. My husband admitted to a porn addiction so obviously at some point he has been somewhere that has flagged his name. If he had been downloading, viewing there would have been traces on his phone he's had it for years without upgrading and is not tech savvy didn't even know what cache was.
Even with an NFA they can still stop him working if they decide to show it as his career needs enhanced.
But at least he is home! Kids are over the moon and most of the worry has gone.
So my husbands phone came back and absolutely nothing illegal on it at all so we are NFA.
However the policeman still can't stop and said to my OH I know what I think but I can't prove it and I'll be back to see you again.
He is the most horrible man. My husband admitted to a porn addiction so obviously at some point he has been somewhere that has flagged his name. If he had been downloading, viewing there would have been traces on his phone he's had it for years without upgrading and is not tech savvy didn't even know what cache was.
Even with an NFA they can still stop him working if they decide to show it as his career needs enhanced.
But at least he is home! Kids are over the moon and most of the worry has gone.
However the policeman still can't stop and said to my OH I know what I think but I can't prove it and I'll be back to see you again.
He is the most horrible man. My husband admitted to a porn addiction so obviously at some point he has been somewhere that has flagged his name. If he had been downloading, viewing there would have been traces on his phone he's had it for years without upgrading and is not tech savvy didn't even know what cache was.
Even with an NFA they can still stop him working if they decide to show it as his career needs enhanced.
But at least he is home! Kids are over the moon and most of the worry has gone.
So pleased for you!!
Can you report the officer to anyone? Surely it's classed as harassment? I think I would be consulting a solicitor xx
Can you report the officer to anyone? Surely it's classed as harassment? I think I would be consulting a solicitor xx
I'm so happy for you that you got a positive outcome. I hope that you can be a family again and move on move on.
Thank you both :) it's been three days and it still doesn't feel real
Hi Lifeisover
That is such good news for you and your family.
i agree the police can be so horrible. My OH was lucky, the OIC was not to bad but then our solicitor wouldn't take any nonsense. I did have to remind my OH that they are not his friends and at the end of the day they only want a conviction.
But you only have to watch the news and see how many police officers are arrested for various crimes. I use to respect police officers but reading on this forum the horror stories, that has definitely gone out of the window now!
xxx
That is such good news for you and your family.
i agree the police can be so horrible. My OH was lucky, the OIC was not to bad but then our solicitor wouldn't take any nonsense. I did have to remind my OH that they are not his friends and at the end of the day they only want a conviction.
But you only have to watch the news and see how many police officers are arrested for various crimes. I use to respect police officers but reading on this forum the horror stories, that has definitely gone out of the window now!
xxx
They haven't sent anything on writing yet so can't move on from a work point of view. Feel they may drag it out.
Still feel like I'm waiting for the next bad thing happen.
Still feel like I'm waiting for the next bad thing happen.
On the day my husband was arrested the officer kept saying "did you stumble across this by accident" "was it seen accidentally" over and over again. The same day he was released on bail they said he wasn't a threat to anyone.
the cyber report backs up his story that he was sent the images amongst adult photos. Proves he didn't ask for them and he didn't go looking for them.
His lawyer said to plead guilty as it gets it over with quickly, with a discount, and if it went to a jury the outcome wouldn't be favourable.
fast forward to now and the officers that are out to check his phone don't want him on social media, say he has too many social media apps (normal amount but ok) they want his internet access severely restricted. That he can't be left alone with his kids because he's clearly a threat to them and as he has pleaded guilty there must be something - then in the same breath said it's good the bail conditions state he must stay here because it's good for the family.
it's just ridiculous
the cyber report backs up his story that he was sent the images amongst adult photos. Proves he didn't ask for them and he didn't go looking for them.
His lawyer said to plead guilty as it gets it over with quickly, with a discount, and if it went to a jury the outcome wouldn't be favourable.
fast forward to now and the officers that are out to check his phone don't want him on social media, say he has too many social media apps (normal amount but ok) they want his internet access severely restricted. That he can't be left alone with his kids because he's clearly a threat to them and as he has pleaded guilty there must be something - then in the same breath said it's good the bail conditions state he must stay here because it's good for the family.
it's just ridiculous