Second Interview
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So we got the call today inviting OH to 2nd interview later this month - it'll be exactly 9 months from the knock.
We had successfully managed to compartmentalise and shove it to the back of our minds somewhat, but now it's all back with bells on!
Doesnt help that my elderly mum is in hospital and we are trying to navigate care homes and finances whilst worrying about her.
I'm not sure just how much more stress I can deal with. Fear of the unknown is a terrible thing. I'm already imagining the worst.
not sure what this post is for except to tell someone who cares - I know what a caring community we all are.
xx
We had successfully managed to compartmentalise and shove it to the back of our minds somewhat, but now it's all back with bells on!
Doesnt help that my elderly mum is in hospital and we are trying to navigate care homes and finances whilst worrying about her.
I'm not sure just how much more stress I can deal with. Fear of the unknown is a terrible thing. I'm already imagining the worst.
not sure what this post is for except to tell someone who cares - I know what a caring community we all are.
xx
Sending huge hugs. That'll be us soon. The uncertainty is crippling isn't it? Xxx
At the same point as yourself. We had the 2nd interview today. We also just kind of 'lived life normally until last week. Now thinking about possibly ending the relationship, sorting out the mortgage and living on my own for the first time in my adult life as we've been together since I was 18. I'm off sick from work now as work in a highly stressful job so can't deal with that aswell, but also this seems like there'll still be another 6 weeks before court and then everything that comes after that.
Such a stressful time, it really is. And through none of our own doing!
Such a stressful time, it really is. And through none of our own doing!
Daisychain - do you mind my asking if anything else came to light in the 2nd interview? Xx
We were told a couple of cat b and cat c images but at second interview there where 2 a 5 b 5 c x
after 4 years my ex was called in for a "voluntary interview". Nothing new were found and the police didn't even send all of his seized devices to the forensics. They only sent his phone and found 1x category b that took place in a Instagram video call
the video call happened on a different device and a screen recording of the call was found on his device. He never hid or or anything it was simply found in his photos app
he completely denied it the same way he denied it the first questioning 4 years ago. They want to caution him I believe but he is refusing to accept any wrongdoing x
the video call happened on a different device and a screen recording of the call was found on his device. He never hid or or anything it was simply found in his photos app
he completely denied it the same way he denied it the first questioning 4 years ago. They want to caution him I believe but he is refusing to accept any wrongdoing x