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Living with an ex's dirty secret

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Maz71

Member since
January 2020

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Posted Sat January 11, 2020 11:44pmReport post

Help!! After 5 years of living with my ex and having a child with him I ended our relationship. Following the breakup he began to harass me whereby it became intolerable and I had to get the police involved. It was only then that I found out that he'd been previously convicted of sexually abusing two 9yr old little girls at the age of 16. I just can't get over the lies and the fact that I've had a child to someone who I now feel I never really knew. My family now know as he's not been allowed to see our daughter unsupervised as he's still deemed a moderate risk. I feel it's a horrible dirty secret that now has to be hidden from our daughter. It's caused me to suffer massively mentally.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated

Ellen

Member since
January 2020

38 posts

Posted Fri February 21, 2020 11:03amReport post

Hi ,

I am so sorry you are in the club , I would say be totally honest with your family , they can give you the support and help you need , this is too much of a horrible burden to shoulder on your own xx