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AmIalone

Member since
November 2019

4 posts

Posted Sun January 12, 2020 1:38pmReport post

So last November my ex was charged with indecent & also making photos (by editing my family member onto the body's of abuses children) he was remanded in prison and on Friday he was sentenced to 9 months suspended for 2 years!!!! He's now moved back into my home town with his mother who is denying all the charges agains him! She promised that she'd never bring him back, because she knows how I suffer really badly with social anxiety and it been a struggle to leave the house anyway! We have a child together and I've now cut contact with them all on his side as they can't be trusted. Im now sceard to leave the house incase I bump into any of them. I've phoned the police so an injunction can be put in place, but due to the fact that no harm has come our way we can't. Even tho I explained that he also mentally abused me for years they still wouldn't accept that! What do I do next! I just want to run away.



Sorry for the long post we've just been left with no help or guidance from anyone, not even contact from SS x

SallyBlue

Member since
March 2019

252 posts

Posted Sun January 12, 2020 7:59pmReport post

Aw amsweetheart, that is a terrible situation you are in. Are you in a big town or is it likely you will bump into him? Anxiety is a bitch, I didnt leave the house unless I had to. My husband was imprisoned at the start if the school summer holidays so I didnt need to leave the house. Believe me, it is no way to live. Seek help from your gp to help with your anxiety and start small. I swear I was overjoyed when I went 10 steps alone to the post box. Small steps my love. X