Trusting people
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Hi all,
So my way of being able to deal with this was to tell my closest friends and family which has helped these first 2 weeks as I have been able to surround myself with people and distract myself.
Unfortunately, one of these people has betrayed my trust (I do not know who it is yet) and has told somebody in the village I live in so now alot of people know.
I am so upset and angry that somebody would betray me like this and share information I told them with the greatest confidence.
I know it was going to come out eventually, but I did not want people to know this soon and was hoping it would stay quiet until it goes to court.
How did everybody deal with others finding out? I'm dreading this putting a target on my house where I now live alone with my 3 year old son.
Really struggling tonight. It's 2am and I really don't think I'm going to sleep at all :(
So my way of being able to deal with this was to tell my closest friends and family which has helped these first 2 weeks as I have been able to surround myself with people and distract myself.
Unfortunately, one of these people has betrayed my trust (I do not know who it is yet) and has told somebody in the village I live in so now alot of people know.
I am so upset and angry that somebody would betray me like this and share information I told them with the greatest confidence.
I know it was going to come out eventually, but I did not want people to know this soon and was hoping it would stay quiet until it goes to court.
How did everybody deal with others finding out? I'm dreading this putting a target on my house where I now live alone with my 3 year old son.
Really struggling tonight. It's 2am and I really don't think I'm going to sleep at all :(
I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
I am here.
How sad that someone you trusted let you down.
Please post on discussion thread as I think you might get more response there.
My phone is damaged so my typing is painfully slow
You will get support from here
I am here.
How sad that someone you trusted let you down.
Please post on discussion thread as I think you might get more response there.
My phone is damaged so my typing is painfully slow
You will get support from here
sorry your trust has been broken yet again not from your partner but from a close friend ..its really difficult in the beginning because we need support i told a few friends in the beginning because quite frankly my world had just been shattered and just wanted to not be on this earth it broke my family those friends never uttered a single word and I'm forever greatful for that and they are still by my side w years later it's out there now it hit thr media then that's when it got messy and I always wonder would it have been better to have told people before the court date and just get it all out of the way in the beginning? we dealt with it how we as a family felt was right for our young person he was terrified now everyone and their dog knows so we've been through the worst of it all which yes was horrific but youl soon find out who your true friends are anyway keep your head up and deal with each day at a time maybe don't confide in that circle of people for the time being if you aren't sure who's spreading your life miseries xx