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Letitgo1120

Member since
February 2025

34 posts

This morning we signed our offiical seperation agreement. I am happy this is done and i feel as if my children and myself are protected along with our assests but after leaving the lawyers office i broke down. I am 5 months post knock - 5 months ago this was the man i undoubtedly would be growing old with. I loved him with every part of me and my heart is just completely broken. I cannot believe this is my life. I know I will get through to happier days but right now i just feel so sad and missing him and my old life so much. Nothing really needed just needed to write it down somewhere.



heres hoping to a happier day tomorrow.

Posted Wed May 7, 2025 7:08pmReport post

LisaMargeMaggie

Member since
July 2024

225 posts

Sending you the warmest squishiest hugs. My heart breaks for you and all of us. It's such a tragic waste x

Posted Wed May 7, 2025 7:31pmReport post

Wearyoptimist

Member since
May 2024

3 posts

Sending you solidarity—I'm in a similar situation and have recently started divorce proceedings. I know deep down it’s the right step to create a stable future, but that doesn’t take away the overwhelming waves of anger, sadness, and desolation. You're not alone x

Posted Wed May 7, 2025 9:49pmReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

740 posts

I hear you. Sending love and hugs your way. X

Posted Thu May 8, 2025 2:56pmReport post

FromTheAshes

Member since
January 2025

46 posts

Hi letitgo.

I could have written every word of this. I was in a blissful happy bubble, and I loved him with every part of my being. I didn't even imagine divorce would be in my future. Yet here we are. Everything we dreamed of, built, laughed about, cried about, gone. it's all just gone.

Sending you hugs and love.

Ashes x

Posted Thu May 8, 2025 5:27pmReport post

Holdingthegrenade

Member since
June 2024

216 posts

Same......I've heard from my solicitor today that the courts have approved my divorce paperwork and it will be served on the next few days. This is not where I thought I'd be a single peri-menopausal mum but to quote Elton John....I'm still standing and my child is loved, safe and happy. That'll do.

Posted Thu May 8, 2025 5:52pmReport post

AnxiousGirl

Member since
December 2023

272 posts

Married for 32 years. For a long time I grieved got the life I thought I had.

Now late 50s. Selling the marital home and the prospect of trying to get a mortgage on my own.

Divorce is the next step.

But this is the happiest I have felt in 3 years.

Posted Fri May 9, 2025 5:43amReport post

Starr

Member since
December 2024

160 posts

How are you doing letitgo? I hope you have some nice things you can do over the weekend x

Posted Fri May 9, 2025 8:37pmReport post

Poppet

Member since
February 2025

132 posts

Big hugs to you Letitgo. I'm feeling I might be joining you in the not too distant future. I hope you have something nice you can look forward to this weekend to help lift your spirits xx

Posted Fri May 9, 2025 8:42pmReport post

Letitgo1120

Member since
February 2025

34 posts

Thank you for checking in! Doing better and getting ready for Mothers Day (its this sunday in the US) it will be another tough weekend to get through without having my husband by my side with me and my kids. We will get through yet another celebration! Appreciate all the love and support from this group. Poppet im so sorry you are gearing up for this as well. My heart breaks for all of us. Sending love and hugs to everyone on here reading this. I would be lost without this forum. Truly grateful to have found it. Hope everyone can enjoy their weekends

Posted Sat May 10, 2025 5:54amReport post

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