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Letitgo1120

Member since
February 2025

30 posts

This morning we signed our offiical seperation agreement. I am happy this is done and i feel as if my children and myself are protected along with our assests but after leaving the lawyers office i broke down. I am 5 months post knock - 5 months ago this was the man i undoubtedly would be growing old with. I loved him with every part of me and my heart is just completely broken. I cannot believe this is my life. I know I will get through to happier days but right now i just feel so sad and missing him and my old life so much. Nothing really needed just needed to write it down somewhere.



heres hoping to a happier day tomorrow.

Posted Wed May 7, 2025 7:08pmReport post

LisaMargeMaggie

Member since
July 2024

195 posts

Sending you the warmest squishiest hugs. My heart breaks for you and all of us. It's such a tragic waste x

Posted Wed May 7, 2025 7:31pmReport post

Wearyoptimist

Member since
May 2024

3 posts

Sending you solidarity—I'm in a similar situation and have recently started divorce proceedings. I know deep down it’s the right step to create a stable future, but that doesn’t take away the overwhelming waves of anger, sadness, and desolation. You're not alone x

Posted Wed May 7, 2025 9:49pmReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

697 posts

I hear you. Sending love and hugs your way. X

Posted Thu May 8, 2025 2:56pmReport post

FromTheAshes

Member since
January 2025

42 posts

Hi letitgo.

I could have written every word of this. I was in a blissful happy bubble, and I loved him with every part of my being. I didn't even imagine divorce would be in my future. Yet here we are. Everything we dreamed of, built, laughed about, cried about, gone. it's all just gone.

Sending you hugs and love.

Ashes x

Posted Thu May 8, 2025 5:27pmReport post

Holdingthegrenade

Member since
June 2024

203 posts

Same......I've heard from my solicitor today that the courts have approved my divorce paperwork and it will be served on the next few days. This is not where I thought I'd be a single peri-menopausal mum but to quote Elton John....I'm still standing and my child is loved, safe and happy. That'll do.

Posted Thu May 8, 2025 5:52pmReport post

AnxiousGirl

Member since
December 2023

265 posts

Married for 32 years. For a long time I grieved got the life I thought I had.

Now late 50s. Selling the marital home and the prospect of trying to get a mortgage on my own.

Divorce is the next step.

But this is the happiest I have felt in 3 years.

Posted Fri May 9, 2025 5:43amReport post

Quick exit