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WorriedAndConfused

Member since
November 2024

137 posts

My hubby is in court tomorrow for the final hearing. His lawyer told him to plead guilty to get it over with quickly, even though the cyber report etc has proven he was telling the truth and didn't ask for the images or go looking for it.



CJSW recommended community payback order and supervision with her. She doesn't think custodial is necessary

Family SW isn't going to be happy with any sentence other than prison. They also think I don't know what the charges are or that I'm minimising them and are trying to force me into making a decision about my relationship and got all moody when they were informed I had taken advice from a person trained in such matters from this organisation. Apparently they hadn't heard of Stop it Now yet the month before they told me to contact them. SS are liars too. The things they claim we said were not said etc it's a nightmare

all I've done all morning is cry

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 7:48amReport post

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1219 posts

I hope that you get a fair sentence tomorrow. The only advice I can give with the sw is to put everything in emails, when you have a meeting email over what you've taken away from that and ask for clarification on actions to be completed by the next meeting xxx

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 8:07amReport post

WorriedAndConfused

Member since
November 2024

137 posts

Thank you so much

i have never been given and email contact. Only a mobile number but I have sent texts and had replies so I have something in writing at least x

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 8:14amReport post

Caggie164

Member since
October 2023

367 posts

Hope all goes well for you tomorrow xx

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 12:14pmReport post

WorriedAndConfused

Member since
November 2024

137 posts

Thank you.
spent today getting the house all sorted and been crying most of the time too

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 1:34pmReport post

Upset mum

Member since
June 2020

2504 posts

Worried x

Will be thinking of you all tomorrow xx

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 2:55pmReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

886 posts

In my experience SS's say ANYTHING to get you to comply. Its easier for them that way.
I'll be thinking of you today. My ex's sentencing was adjourned yesterday for the 6th time so I really really hope yours goes ahead and you get the sentence you want for your loved one. Wishing you all thethe best best. X

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 5:07pmReport post

Help, please

Member since
May 2025

24 posts

Good luck for tomorrow

Will be thinking of you x

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 5:52pmReport post

WorriedAndConfused

Member since
November 2024

137 posts

I want to thank you all for your kind words and support.



littlerobin I am so sorry that's happened. Have they given you a reason

Posted Tue May 13, 2025 7:00pmReport post

Letitgo1120

Member since
February 2025

34 posts

Sending you strength and prayers! Good luck and stay strong!

Posted Wed May 14, 2025 2:38amReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

886 posts

Worriedandconfused

never get a reason for the adjournments but it's always sentencing hearings. Its court delays that's the issue.

Posted Wed May 14, 2025 9:32amReport post

Inturmoil1974

Member since
November 2022

401 posts

Hoping for the best outcome for you and yours x

Posted Wed May 14, 2025 11:46amReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

886 posts

Worriedandconfused

How are you? X

Posted Thu May 15, 2025 11:07amReport post

Katie28

Member since
December 2021

210 posts

Hoping for the best outcome today.
Katie xxx

Posted Thu May 15, 2025 11:54amReport post

Quick exit