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marauder91

Member since
November 2024

155 posts

So ive completed the inform course and the safeguarding course with the nspcc and ive completed my parenting assessment, partner has completed the inform plus and a course with his probation officer. Something 22 or something I can't remember exactly. His probation officer has lowered his risk from high-medium. He's also seeing a therapist weekly. Social services however are not budging on ANYTHING. I'm still not allowed to supervise any contact with our 2 babies and my partner is allowed no contact with my older 2, despite them continuously talking about how much they miss him. Does anyone have any ideas what else we can do just to get something to move along, It's been 9 months since they come and shattered everything. I just don't get how he was allowed home after sentencing for them to come 4 months later and say he has to leave and I can't supervise. And I just have to put up and shut up. I know this is his fault and I'm not denying that at all. He's just making so many changes and he's doing amazing, we're doing everything they ask and it's just not enough.

Posted Fri June 13, 2025 8:59pmReport post

Upset mother

Member since
March 2025

120 posts

If I remember correctly you are on a child protection plan? Is that right? What happened at the last conference review and what is in your safety plan? X

Posted Fri June 13, 2025 11:58pmReport post

Ocean

Member since
September 2023

974 posts

How do your OH's probation officer and offender manager feel about your OH having contct with your other 2 children and you being allowed to supervise? If they are supportive, would they be willing to help you put a case forward to SS?

Posted Sat June 14, 2025 10:56pmReport post

marauder91

Member since
November 2024

155 posts

At the moment I'm still not allowed to supervise with our two so it feels like mentioning the other 2 is pointless

Posted Sun June 15, 2025 8:50amReport post

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