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Hi,
my OH has been out of prison for nearly a year my little one is 19 months old. Had ss involved from the second I found out I was pregnant and nearly 2 years later they are still involved. We have a CPP in place and has been escalated to PLO.
My oh is doing everything he possibly can to reduce his risk.
SS have always said they do not have any issues with my son being in my care, that being said I still have to have them visit every 10 days to check on him, even tho oh isnt living with us.
I just need to know that all this hardship and toughness are worth it in the end. Will we ever be able to be a 'normal' family.
I have done everything that they have asked off my and still doesn't seem like it will ever be enough.
please tell me there's light at the end of a very dark tunnel
x
my OH has been out of prison for nearly a year my little one is 19 months old. Had ss involved from the second I found out I was pregnant and nearly 2 years later they are still involved. We have a CPP in place and has been escalated to PLO.
My oh is doing everything he possibly can to reduce his risk.
SS have always said they do not have any issues with my son being in my care, that being said I still have to have them visit every 10 days to check on him, even tho oh isnt living with us.
I just need to know that all this hardship and toughness are worth it in the end. Will we ever be able to be a 'normal' family.
I have done everything that they have asked off my and still doesn't seem like it will ever be enough.
please tell me there's light at the end of a very dark tunnel
x
I'm just in the PLO process myself- my daughter is 8 nealy 9. He committed his offence in August 2023. I don't see a future for us. I'm constantly fed up with being asked if we are in a relationship or not. Its quite clear they don't want us in a relationship. Why have they escalated you to PLO? In my case it was due to drift and delay. The SW has literally done nothing on the CPP and now we are in PLO they can fund an independent assessmet which is being done at the end of July. My OH was seeing a therapist for a number of months via StopSo and SS have completely ignored the report- probably because its says the chance of him re-offending is low and the chances of his offence becoming a contact offence is negligible. SS don't like hearing that. They have been horrible to deal with xx
We're about a week after sentance and SS haven't been in touch. We've contacted them twice now. We closed the case with a plan in place and they said they would open it again once sentence. They said they were only involved because police had conditions but I think they're going to open it and put stuff in place even though there's no contact conditions from the courts.
I bet they'll get In touch once they need to check one of their boxes.
I've been wondering if it's all worth it. Ours got to press and it said I was 'supportive' and obviously all the people around us believe the same so im apparently just as bad and should be looked at.
I bet they'll get In touch once they need to check one of their boxes.
I've been wondering if it's all worth it. Ours got to press and it said I was 'supportive' and obviously all the people around us believe the same so im apparently just as bad and should be looked at.