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Hi guys I know I've read it on here so many times but it's been like 18 months now since the knock and I was told that people that live in Dorset usually get their devices checked within eight months so I was just kind of wondering if anybody out there lives in Dorset and how long it takes before they get to the next stage
I I am wondering whether to contact the police and ask them what's going on but I'm a bit worried too in case my OH finds out. I just feel but I really need to move forward from the situation. it just feels like we're in limbo I can't move on or do anything. Any advice would be really appreciated. Thank you all in advance xx
I I am wondering whether to contact the police and ask them what's going on but I'm a bit worried too in case my OH finds out. I just feel but I really need to move forward from the situation. it just feels like we're in limbo I can't move on or do anything. Any advice would be really appreciated. Thank you all in advance xx
Hi Stan Cat
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but... It takes forever. They don't rush and won't be helpful to you with timings at all. I still don't know if they wish to add some more punishment for you, it's how long the process takes or if we are just below notice and consideration.
3 years for us in Kent, from knock to sentencing. I hate the saying but, it takes as long as it takes.
Yes, 3 months will be the answer you get if you do reach out. It's always 3 months and as someone already said, it NEVER bloody is!
We all understand the feeling of limbo. Not knowing up from down or what is real and what is a lie. The inability to be able to plan or even think about the future. It's as if you are just stuck, that's how it was for me anyway. Stuck in a really terrible nightmare. My heart really does go out to you. I would not wish this ordeal on anyone.
I hope they speed up the whole thing for you.
Take care of yourself x
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but... It takes forever. They don't rush and won't be helpful to you with timings at all. I still don't know if they wish to add some more punishment for you, it's how long the process takes or if we are just below notice and consideration.
3 years for us in Kent, from knock to sentencing. I hate the saying but, it takes as long as it takes.
Yes, 3 months will be the answer you get if you do reach out. It's always 3 months and as someone already said, it NEVER bloody is!
We all understand the feeling of limbo. Not knowing up from down or what is real and what is a lie. The inability to be able to plan or even think about the future. It's as if you are just stuck, that's how it was for me anyway. Stuck in a really terrible nightmare. My heart really does go out to you. I would not wish this ordeal on anyone.
I hope they speed up the whole thing for you.
Take care of yourself x
Thank you both for your replies. It's just so frustrating not being able to move on or to decide what's best to do next. I really do wish they were just hurry up and just put us out of our misery. at very least step up to the next stage and re-interview him so we know whether he is going to be charged or not .