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So ladies ( and gents ),
It's been a long while since I was here. Just thought I'd pop by and say hello to my lifeline...
I hope your all doing OK in this hellish journey, and sending you all my love if you need it.
So what's changed in disneyland ( home) he's back permanently, everyone's aware, back to doing those school runs granted not solo ( that's all dependent on me and when im comfortable in him doing so ) the bonds are getting stronger with our babies and him again which is great!
We've had no press, we've not had anyone else find out as it stands, thank God! But what we have had is his offending manager doing a home visit, a surprise one at that! Which has rocked me and set my ptsd off massively, and is really unfair ???????? but plus side no more social so it's easier to deal with!
I'm currently trying to work out how I see all the evidence, I've still got questions, it still weighs on me massively, like I'm not joking massively.
As some of you know i was to put a complaint in, I'm still currently typing that up and quoting from the college of policing handbook .. does anyone know if they do actually follow this or meant to?
I don't know. Life's madness and I'm so so so close to finishing my college diploma ( yep I decided to study during all of this am I bonkers or what?) And on top of that helping a friend who has been this victim of this sort of crime too, of course she doesn't know what's gone off, so feeling like a liar and a fraud at times.
Sending you all lots of love and virtual hugs where ever you may be during your journey, there really is light at the end of it. I know it doesn't feel it, believe me there is, I was once in those shoes you were handed, and here iam shoving them in the loft to be forgotten in time.
Xx
It's been a long while since I was here. Just thought I'd pop by and say hello to my lifeline...
I hope your all doing OK in this hellish journey, and sending you all my love if you need it.
So what's changed in disneyland ( home) he's back permanently, everyone's aware, back to doing those school runs granted not solo ( that's all dependent on me and when im comfortable in him doing so ) the bonds are getting stronger with our babies and him again which is great!
We've had no press, we've not had anyone else find out as it stands, thank God! But what we have had is his offending manager doing a home visit, a surprise one at that! Which has rocked me and set my ptsd off massively, and is really unfair ???????? but plus side no more social so it's easier to deal with!
I'm currently trying to work out how I see all the evidence, I've still got questions, it still weighs on me massively, like I'm not joking massively.
As some of you know i was to put a complaint in, I'm still currently typing that up and quoting from the college of policing handbook .. does anyone know if they do actually follow this or meant to?
I don't know. Life's madness and I'm so so so close to finishing my college diploma ( yep I decided to study during all of this am I bonkers or what?) And on top of that helping a friend who has been this victim of this sort of crime too, of course she doesn't know what's gone off, so feeling like a liar and a fraud at times.
Sending you all lots of love and virtual hugs where ever you may be during your journey, there really is light at the end of it. I know it doesn't feel it, believe me there is, I was once in those shoes you were handed, and here iam shoving them in the loft to be forgotten in time.
Xx
Hi little Robin.
Yeah that's what we've worked out too roughly every 3 months, in their words until they've risk assessed him. Surely that should of already of been done?
Hoping once this is done we're stronger than ever but who knows.
Taking each day at a time that's for sure
Xx
Yeah that's what we've worked out too roughly every 3 months, in their words until they've risk assessed him. Surely that should of already of been done?
Hoping once this is done we're stronger than ever but who knows.
Taking each day at a time that's for sure
Xx
Little Robin, he's Already done 6/7 sessions with probation, gone from weekly to fortnightly now to monthly meetings. So no idea when their going to be doing any of the risk assesment.