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So mad with SS after ding a SAR

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Upset mother

Member since
March 2025

126 posts

Received my SAR documentation over a month ago and put off reading it because I knew it would make me mad and oh boy has it! I had to stop reading it. The SW is openly lying, she had documented that I have done a Claire's Law request - I haven't. I didn't even know what Claire's Law is I had to google it. She is insinuating that DV is an issue when it isn't and never has been. She has said that I should be asking my OH for a divorce- she is showing professional bias. She has said that I ended a planned house visit because I was too stressed, have never done this and I'm always welcoming to her. Why are they allowed to lie and get away with it!

Posted Tue July 1, 2025 11:49pmReport post

LittleRobin3

Member since
April 2024

870 posts

Ugh, I'm not sure about "professional " bias, more just, bias. Honestly, I can't write here what I think about SS's or I'd banned! What I can say though is that SS's caused my children and therefore me far more harm than my ex/kids Dad did! X

Posted Wed July 2, 2025 9:41amReport post

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

555 posts

https://ico.org.uk/for-the-public/your-right-to-get-your-data-corrected/

You have a right to have the information corrected if it is wrong. Bear in mind as well, that personal opinions should be clearly noted in their records as being opinions.

Posted Wed July 2, 2025 10:13amReport post

Upset mother

Member since
March 2025

126 posts

Completely agree LittleRobin- yes my husbands offence was upsetting, it happened nearly two 2 years ago. I've gotten over the upset, he's seen a therapist to address what he did. SS are still in our lives causing upset. The police have openly said what he did is not a sex crime which is why he was charged with obscene publication and not under the sex offenders act. I'm not justifying what he did, these are just he facts in black and white.

I need to complain to the LA before contacting the ICO which is what my full intention is. I'm just wondering if I am able to contact the police for them to confirm that I never done a Claire's Law request

Posted Wed July 2, 2025 10:36amReport post

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