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Molly dog

Member since
October 2023

82 posts

My husband wants to have nights away and I really don't feel like I want to go any where I can't stand the thought of having to ask permission from police everytime we fancy staying over night somewhere it is really doing my head in and I feel so much anger towards him because of this .

Posted Wed July 2, 2025 8:28amReport post

Lucy from Stop it Now!

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Posted Mon July 14, 2025 11:45amReport post

Webb89

Member since
July 2022

537 posts

Sorry this got missed. It depends at what stage you are at, and what restrictions you have. If he is already on the Sor you only need to declare if for 7 days or more, so if you go for a shorter period there is no need to tell them. Unlock website should have more details. Plus it will be on his paperwork.

Posted Mon July 14, 2025 2:26pmReport post

Molly dog

Member since
October 2023

82 posts

Thanks x

Posted Mon July 14, 2025 6:52pmReport post

Haze23

Member since
December 2023

56 posts

Hi Molly dog I have felt like this many times. I feel we are missing out and I think about all the places now we will likely never be able to go. The main thing that has stopped me is asking permission as well it makes me feel so angry. I've just ageeed we won't go anywhere for a while and save the money for when this is all over. Xx

Posted Mon July 14, 2025 9:28pmReport post

Quick exit