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Moon

Member since
October 2024

23 posts

Hi all

It's been 9 months since the knock, he had been communicating with a vigilant group online, was all over Facebook. Since then he's done therapy with Lucy Faithfully Foundation and the informed plus course. I've done the informed course. Hes worked hard and taken responsibility for his actions. We miss him and I've seen the work he's done and I'm thinking of wanting him back home.

Just looking for advise. I know SW are different everywhere and there's a lot of hardship working with them from what's I've read in other posts but what advice can you all give Ans what's the process. Do I just phone SW and say I want to work to bring him back home?

Posted Fri July 25, 2025 9:22pmReport post

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1238 posts

Hi,

are you post sentencing or waiting for charges? We were 4 years post sentencing when we started the process of a phased return. I emailed ss with the work we'd both done, a brief safety plan and what we wanted as a family (phased return and gradual move to unsupervised). I'd also reached out to his offender manager and my daughters school to make them aware that we would be going back to ss and with school I set up meetings that were more than what would happen on a cin plan. We didn't meet the criteria for any plan with ss and were signed off permanently to ss within a couple of weeks xxx

Posted Sat July 26, 2025 8:30amReport post

AnxiousGirl

Member since
December 2023

304 posts

Only you know if your partner is truly sorry for what he has put you through and is changing himself

Mine wouldn't know the truth if it got him in the face so I'm well rid

Nothing on this planet would make me take him back.

Only my opinion but I think the offending and the resulting fall out will never ever go away - and life is too short.

Posted Sat July 26, 2025 11:19amReport post

Moon

Member since
October 2024

23 posts

Distressed and pregnant he's still to go through plea hearing and sentencing.

Posted Sat July 26, 2025 3:08pmReport post

Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1238 posts

I'd probably wait until after sentencing because this will trigger another referral to ss anyway. Once sentencing is done you'll know if anything else comes out that you weren't aware of and he'll also be given a risk assessment early on by probation if not given one prior to court xxx

Posted Sat July 26, 2025 3:17pmReport post

Quick exit