Our son has changed our lives forever
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Heartbrokenmum,
l'm sure you have read my posts, your situation is so similar.. not sure what l can say because we are all in the same boat and cannot get out..
it's always been the 3 of us, l've been criticised in the past for interfering too much in our son's life.. but obviously not enough for it to come to this.. we too hoped that as he reached 18 he could be more independant.
He has now been working for over two years, passed his apprenticeship with a distinction, saves his money, and has been building up his confidence, and then this..
l tried talking to him at the start of all this and stopped because it was frustrating me and l didn't want to push him further.. he has been talking to Stopitnow and others and wants to understand his actions and clearly regrets what he has done..
After 10 weeks of rollercoaster rides we are no further on.. just sat in our bubble, waiting for it to burst... take care..
l'm sure you have read my posts, your situation is so similar.. not sure what l can say because we are all in the same boat and cannot get out..
it's always been the 3 of us, l've been criticised in the past for interfering too much in our son's life.. but obviously not enough for it to come to this.. we too hoped that as he reached 18 he could be more independant.
He has now been working for over two years, passed his apprenticeship with a distinction, saves his money, and has been building up his confidence, and then this..
l tried talking to him at the start of all this and stopped because it was frustrating me and l didn't want to push him further.. he has been talking to Stopitnow and others and wants to understand his actions and clearly regrets what he has done..
After 10 weeks of rollercoaster rides we are no further on.. just sat in our bubble, waiting for it to burst... take care..
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