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Husband convicted of indecent images almost 2 years ago, suspended sentence of 2 years. 10yr SOR 10yr SHPO.
We have a teenage daughter and it's really bloody hard in terms of her friendships. How do people navigate this. She spends lots of time at her friend's house and sleeps at her friend's house but she wants her friends to come to her house!! Understandably it's her house and she still has a life. The situation makes her so angry and upset at her dad (she knows what he did) and then her dad is also so angry and upset with himself!
Do you children have friends over ?
I've presumed they surely children shouldn't come over even though I would also be her and supervising but we've never asked any professional if this is the case?
Any information on how you all do it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much x
Husband convicted of indecent images almost 2 years ago, suspended sentence of 2 years. 10yr SOR 10yr SHPO.
We have a teenage daughter and it's really bloody hard in terms of her friendships. How do people navigate this. She spends lots of time at her friend's house and sleeps at her friend's house but she wants her friends to come to her house!! Understandably it's her house and she still has a life. The situation makes her so angry and upset at her dad (she knows what he did) and then her dad is also so angry and upset with himself!
Do you children have friends over ?
I've presumed they surely children shouldn't come over even though I would also be her and supervising but we've never asked any professional if this is the case?
Any information on how you all do it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much x
Can't help with any specific advice but I guess some things to think about with regards having the childrens friends over.
Is there anything in the SHPO which would mean he can't be there if other children are in the house?
Is his suspended sentence still in place? If so is there anything in the licence conditions which means he can't be there if other children are in the house?
How long are they going to be there? If its a sleep over then presumably more than 12 hours in which case it would be notifiable under SOR.
The big one I guess is do the friends parents and depenend on their age the friends themselves know about the conviction? If not are you prepared to have to disclose it to them or have MOSOVO do it for you.
Is there anything in the SHPO which would mean he can't be there if other children are in the house?
Is his suspended sentence still in place? If so is there anything in the licence conditions which means he can't be there if other children are in the house?
How long are they going to be there? If its a sleep over then presumably more than 12 hours in which case it would be notifiable under SOR.
The big one I guess is do the friends parents and depenend on their age the friends themselves know about the conviction? If not are you prepared to have to disclose it to them or have MOSOVO do it for you.