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Torn and confused

Member since
August 2025

1 post

hey everyone been lurking here for a while and decided to post today! My OH my partner of 18 years was arrested two years ago and only just gone to civil court and was handed a 5 year sexual harm prevention order and on the register for 5 years for online communication with a Police decoy he still denys it and I'm very torn between if he did it or not any way there's been many mixed opinions from friends and family it was in the media, i feel as though people are branding me with the same brush as we are a guy couple help !!!

Posted Mon September 1, 2025 11:11amReport post

Stitch123

Member since
March 2025

46 posts

Oh sorry to hear this... we've been waiting over 2 years and still haven't heard anything it's pure torture. At least you can move on from it and try ignore people around you and what there saying or thinking. It will blow over and they will have something else to talk about next week . (:

Posted Mon September 1, 2025 12:38pmReport post

suziesweet

Member since
March 2025

42 posts

5 years waiting here, it's horrible but the way you're being treated is shocking!! You did nothing wrong I'm so sorry and wish you all the best x

Posted Mon September 1, 2025 2:34pmReport post

Thrudark123@

Member since
August 2025

8 posts

It's so bad that it takes so long to get to the point of charges or court. Whilst I appreciate it must take time to analyse devices in my situation my father has admitted what he was accused of by the vigilantes so I don't understand why the evidence they provide isn't taken into consideration by the police!? We are only 3 months in waiting with no update at all from the police and it's torture waiting not knowing etc I can't imagine waiting 2 years ????????

Posted Mon September 1, 2025 3:22pmReport post

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