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WorriedAndConfused

Member since
November 2024

138 posts

It's been a while but here goes.



my husband broke his conditions and accessed the internet on a smart phone. The police found it on one of their random visits. SS came today and told me my kids are no longer safe so I had to tell them to keep him away from the house. SS have said he's no longer allowed to talk to or see the kids at the moment.



They checked the phone and he's been watching YouTube and accessing American football and football websites. Apparently he's going back to court for breach. What are the likely consequences

Posted Tue September 16, 2025 3:56pmReport post

Lucy from Stop it Now!

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Posted Mon September 29, 2025 12:41pmReport post

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

600 posts

Breach of an SHPO has lots of different categories, depending on how serious it was. If no harm was caused, then a fine or community order is most likely outcome.

Posted Tue September 30, 2025 10:53amReport post

WorriedAndConfused

Member since
November 2024

138 posts

Hi

He wasn't meant to be on the internet at all or have a phone that he can use to access it. He's to go back to court. We have separated now because me and the kids don't need all the stress it's brought and SS don't want him at the house at all now. He had used the phone fo YouTube, sports websites and to listen to music

Posted Sat October 4, 2025 11:24pmReport post

Quick exit