when can I start looking forward
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It's recently dawned on me (now my hormones are not driving my thoughts) that I may have been a little nieve. OH was arrested 9 months ago, out daughter is now 7 months, he denied anything.
ss told me at the start, noones being arrested and bailed with such harsh conditions without big suspisions. I know it may be the case that the police have not gone into detail with OH about that suspision so everything he can explain to me is extremely vague.
realistically am I looking at never being able to trust him even if nothing is found on his devices? that's how it's feeling right now. If the police gave an NFA would they be likely to explain what that suspision was?
I know from experience that they very likely have a very exact image/time/event to be able to put such bail conditions in place. Even if there were just 1 image they'd need to be 100% sure it isn't more.
I know permission would need to be given for me to have any disclosures that can be made.
I just feel so stuck in my own head right now
ss told me at the start, noones being arrested and bailed with such harsh conditions without big suspisions. I know it may be the case that the police have not gone into detail with OH about that suspision so everything he can explain to me is extremely vague.
realistically am I looking at never being able to trust him even if nothing is found on his devices? that's how it's feeling right now. If the police gave an NFA would they be likely to explain what that suspision was?
I know from experience that they very likely have a very exact image/time/event to be able to put such bail conditions in place. Even if there were just 1 image they'd need to be 100% sure it isn't more.
I know permission would need to be given for me to have any disclosures that can be made.
I just feel so stuck in my own head right now
Your OH can give you disclosure with the OIC and with his solicitor, if / when he has one. Get him to cc you in on the emails requesting this so you know he's actually asked! Though in my experience 'my' OIC is very very cagey and I didn't find out much. If your OH has been released on bail it will be renewed every three months and he will receive a copy of the paperwork from the OIC, which will contain some independent information on why the police are investigating (basically the OIC has to make the case as to why bail should be extended). I would ask him for this.
Based on my experience they WILL have gone into some detail with him when he was interviewed in the first place, but other people may have had different experiences?
Just to add, some OICs are much more forthcoming than 'my' one, judging by posts here. No harm in asking.
Based on my experience they WILL have gone into some detail with him when he was interviewed in the first place, but other people may have had different experiences?
Just to add, some OICs are much more forthcoming than 'my' one, judging by posts here. No harm in asking.