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Starmoon

Member since
September 2025

3 posts

Hi Everyone,

Thank you so much for all the advice, shared stories and support on here.

Does anyone know, if you are not in contact with the person but you have a child together (they have no contact with child already), is there anyway of finding out if/what they are charged with and when court dates might be? And the outcomes? DV was involved in the past so contacting them directly is not an option.

OIC is supportive but limited as to what he will share.

Thanks

Posted Mon September 22, 2025 9:10amReport post

Daisychain7655

Member since
April 2025

102 posts

As far as im aware the only way to get the information would to be from the person themselves. Even if you are with the person still, the information is very limited from the police! Its very much a chasing game.

Posted Mon September 22, 2025 9:16amReport post

edel2020

Member since
March 2022

598 posts

Some people use the Courtserve website to check for the court dates. That is all available to the public and you can go and sit in the public gallery if you want to know all the charges. The outcome might be reported in local media, but that is not guaranteed.

Posted Mon September 22, 2025 10:18amReport post

Tulip23

Member since
September 2025

9 posts

We used the court rolls and searched for the person's name everyday until we found his court case date.

Posted Mon September 22, 2025 11:56amReport post

Starmoon

Member since
September 2025

3 posts

Thanks everyone for your replies.

I've been checking courtserve everyday, I guess I'll just carry on!

Posted Mon September 22, 2025 5:27pmReport post

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