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feeling very low tonight

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sadso

Member since
December 2023

97 posts

Posted Sun December 8, 2024 12:18amReport post

I'm utterly sad and making myself ill through sadness for my family member , her home is still being targeted even though her son doesn't stay there anymore , she has a daughter and my heart feels their pain their sadness its killing me inside I just want to protect them and knowing I can't eats me up. this is kids that are doing this every now and again they think it's funny whilst it's torturing my family. I just feel at a complete loss I have rage inside and feel I'm ready to explode this is a year after the media coverage.. these kids run riot in the neighbourhood and do it to others but I know my family members is targeted , she's spoke to some parents but there's a few who's parents are just as bad , when does it stop I wished she would move but she doesn't want to and won't but I can't fathom how she copes ... it literally breaks my heart I'm already on medication but nothing helps my thoughts and feelings I'm just so so sad

Numbandlost

Member since
November 2024

6 posts

Posted Mon December 9, 2024 6:35pmReport post

Hi

Thats sounds so stressful for you all. Has family member reported the harassment to the police?
She's lucky to have you supporting so please continue to be there and don't underestimate how much that will be helping her even if it doesn't feel like it. You need to look after yourself so please reach out to Lucy Faithful who can provide support for you.

This is a truly awful place to find yourself so please just take one day at a time.

sadso

Member since
December 2023

97 posts

Posted Tue December 10, 2024 1:01pmReport post

thank you for your response I was just really upset always find the forum a good place to vent , she's a strong woman I actually have a hard time because I've always protected and stood up for my family and people are taking liberties because of the situation, silly young kids but the police are aware and have told her to not be silly or feel silly and report everything and anything that happens , they are a aware of a few names that's she's given, and security measures have been put up at the house it's just awful but she's not budging it's her home do I suppose if she's strong enough to put up with it then I have to be also otherwise I'm goijg to be so ill with worry all the time xx