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Stuckinhell

Member since
June 2025

7 posts

Its been 2 months since the knock. Iioc on the kik app. Our 20 year marriage is over. I have 2 primary age children.

I think it is actually hitting me what is happening. I just feel so tearful all the time.

Posted Thu July 31, 2025 3:24pmReport post

Daisychain7655

Member since
April 2025

72 posts

Can totally relate to this. The finality of it seems so odd. Like the person I cant have in my life anymore is the person I want to tell about it.



Sending hugs

Posted Thu July 31, 2025 7:23pmReport post

Ginluver

Member since
April 2023

80 posts

Hi you are still very much at start on this horrendous situation, I was tearful and angry for months but have learnt now to accept and live a different life to the one I previously had. I am past sentencing for my ex partner whom I have two children with some days I would feel strong and then some days I had no appetite would cry when children weren't around to see it's such a shock to the system and a way to grieve in a sense the life you once knew and the person you thought you knew. Keep strong and cry as much as you need to better days are to come. X

Posted Thu July 31, 2025 8:40pmReport post

Stuckinhell

Member since
June 2025

7 posts

I just want my partner back. I want to tell him all the random stuff that happens. Watch TV with him. Just live normal life with him.



It's the waiting too, knowing it could be a year or more of this limbo land. It feels inhumane. I know the authorities don't care how long it takes, or can't help the backlog etc. But it just seems so unfair on us and the children.

Posted Thu July 31, 2025 8:42pmReport post

Stuckinhell

Member since
June 2025

7 posts

Ginluver that's it isn't it, grieving the life I thought we had together.



I'm trying to take each day as it comes and I do feel strong most days but some days it hits me like a tonne or bricks and I feel this crushing heavy weight on my shoulders.

Posted Thu July 31, 2025 8:44pmReport post

Poppet

Member since
February 2025

192 posts

I'm so with you. We're 6 months in from the knock. I say we, but we are now over. For me, there's no going back from this My husband is half moved out and should be fully gone at the end of next week. I feel just awful today. I'm so so sad, so angry, so disgusted, so shocked, so hurt. I just don't know quite what to do with myself. I know all serious relationships and marriages coming to an end are awful, but this feels like a double whammy. I know things will get better, but right now, its just horrid. A big collective hug for us all xx

Posted Thu July 31, 2025 8:57pmReport post

Quick exit