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My ex partner/childs dad has been arrested for looking at inappropriate images. The police have been round and spoke to my child. Luckily my child hasn't asked questions as to why they have been. However he now can now no longer have my child over night and has to be supervised visits. My child has been going every weekend staying over for 6 years. The police have reassured me that it was nothing to do with my child but something else. Do I still let my child go to dad's for supervised visits ? What do I tell my child? I have no idea what to do. Im so lost and confused. Please help me
My ex partner/childs dad has been arrested for looking at inappropriate images. The police have been round and spoke to my child. Luckily my child hasn't asked questions as to why they have been. However he now can now no longer have my child over night and has to be supervised visits. My child has been going every weekend staying over for 6 years. The police have reassured me that it was nothing to do with my child but something else. Do I still let my child go to dad's for supervised visits ? What do I tell my child? I have no idea what to do. Im so lost and confused. Please help me
Hi,
how old is your child? Who would be able to supervise? Contact can be safely managed if that's what you choose to do. It's likely that social services will be in touch soon to work out a safety plan xxx
how old is your child? Who would be able to supervise? Contact can be safely managed if that's what you choose to do. It's likely that social services will be in touch soon to work out a safety plan xxx
It is 100% you're choice if you let him have supervised visits and what you think would be best for your child.
Myself, my family and our friends that know all help me supervise my husband but 98% I supervised my husband. But that's my daughters normal, she has spent half her life with this (she's only 1). I didn't want to disrupt her normal and he and the police reasured me that the accusations did not involve my daughter. It's taken a lot of mental strength but seeing her jump up and stamp her feet with excitement when the door bell goes and shouting dada makes the stress of supervision with a toddling toddler worth it.
What to tell them I unfortunately can't help with unfortunately it depends on their age a bit too
Myself, my family and our friends that know all help me supervise my husband but 98% I supervised my husband. But that's my daughters normal, she has spent half her life with this (she's only 1). I didn't want to disrupt her normal and he and the police reasured me that the accusations did not involve my daughter. It's taken a lot of mental strength but seeing her jump up and stamp her feet with excitement when the door bell goes and shouting dada makes the stress of supervision with a toddling toddler worth it.
What to tell them I unfortunately can't help with unfortunately it depends on their age a bit too