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Ollie44

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
The dreaded knock

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11

The dreaded knock

Hi,

I have been married for 24 years and have 2 children, one of which is a son aged 21. On Monday 20th June my world turned upside down. At 6.30am the police and social workers knocked on my door. They asked me to bring the whole family down into the lounge ...

Christmas Chaos

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Marriage counselling but the love is gone

Replies:
10

RE: Marriage counselling but the love is gone

That's so true Lee. I've never thought about it like that, that it doesn't make the addict happy and consequences don't come into it because its an addiction.

I've also grilled my husband about these women. I was torturing myself thinking they were gonna look a certain way like Pamela Anderson ...

Christmas Chaos

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Marriage counselling but the love is gone

Replies:
10

RE: Marriage counselling but the love is gone

Thanks for the quick response Lee. I would be lost without this forum. Who else could ever understand this unless you've lived it. I'm so torn about my marriage. I was really happy and settled in the UK. I thought we both were happy. He had never once mentioned porn or ...

Christmas Chaos

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Marriage counselling but the love is gone

Replies:
10

Marriage counselling but the love is gone

I have been estranged from my husband since Christmas when we had the knock. We only spoke on the phone as I was in a different country with our baby staying with my family for support whiles we sold our home in Scotland(husband lost his job after arrest). Bail conditions don't ...

Concerned

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Returned device logic

Replies:
5

RE: Returned device logic

That is what I thought but he says the phone he was using kik on, that he was involved in the chat in is being returned?

Confusedandconcerned

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
How long can this go on?

Replies:
7

RE: How long can this go on?

Thank you so much for the replies.

I haven't noticed any difference in him, no. He was never a massive social media user anyway but he hasn't come off of them, and still posts very occasionally (in keeping with his usual sort of usage). The reaction from my mum has been the ...

BaffledB

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Coping and the future

Replies:
9

RE: Coping and the future

Pringle,

There is so much to unpack at this point and trying to get your head around everything is absolutely mind blowing. Kik is infamous for activity like you've described, it's why I'm here. I truly believe a lot of men who end up in this predicament through there don't actually consider ...

Pringle01

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Coping and the future

Replies:
9

Coping and the future

This is the hardest thing I've ever had to write. We had 'the knock' on Wednesday morning. Life shattered in the space of minutes. The pain is unbearable.



My partner of 13 years (not married, no children) was arrested and taken to the station. He returned home about 4 hours later, after ...

Bluebell77

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Return to normal family life

Replies:
5

RE: Return to normal family life

Hi, had the knock Jan 20 court march 21 sexualised conversation on KIK with a decoy. No arrange to meet. One cat c moving image. 8 month suspended for 2 years.

Hubby allowed to stay at home. We did have media coverage and some trouble from the neighbours but touch wood nothing ...

Rhubarb95

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
A quick question

Replies:
56

RE: A quick question

Same situation here. 2 pictures linked to his phone via ip address sent on kik. This was march 2021 when the knock for that came.

Husband claimed no idea etc, we were told 6 months for devices. Over a year later, lulled into a false sense of security, the second interview revealed ...

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