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Iamhurting

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Discussion and support

Topic:
Scared confused and hurt

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Scared confused and hurt

I've been with him nearly 5 years, we each have a child from a previous relationship, our kids act like siblings because they are although not legally.

I'm already traumatised from my past, he was my first healthy relationship finally living without abuse for the first time in my life, everything was ...

Will Social Services become involved again after conviction?

Hi,

we've had the knock at the beginning of July 2022. My husband is being accused of making and distributing Cat A/Cat B images on kik messenger. They've returned all of our laptops, but kept his phones and sent them off for further forensic examination.

He said he deleted all of the videos ...

Confusedwife

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
On-Line Safety Bill

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11

RE: On-Line Safety Bill

These vigilante groups are terrible, they claim they're saving children but no consideration for families and actual children that will be affected. The only reason they do these stings is for their egos!!



my husbands case isn't to do with a vigilante group but I feel so sorry for everyone whose ...

Losteverything

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Hope

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18

RE: Hope

I'm so worried because I've ended my lovely relationship on the basis that the police told me that even if it came back NFA that would be because they couldn't find anything, not that he hadn't done it. They said if kik app is deleted it disappears. Any photos downloaded and ...

Clarkestaff

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Hope

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18

RE: Hope

Hi Jane-uar

We received The Knock back in June, same as you our ISP had been reported for downloading an IIOC on an app called KIK, OH was arrested an his mobile taken, he was interviewed under caution with a solicitor present and was advised to go No Comment, he was released ...

LC

Category:
The legal process

Topic:
How long does this take?

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25

RE: How long does this take?

Hi Bluebell,

Yes it's a real weight off our shoulders now! And as awful as it has been it has strengthened our relationship and made our communication so much better, so looking at the silver linings of what is otherwise a horrible time in both our lives.

No there were no apps involved ...

Christmas Chaos

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Devastated with a custodial sentence today

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49

RE: Devastated with a custodial sentence today

Tabs something you said about appealing which worries me, you had said it wouldn't make a difference. After hubby was given the custodial we met his solicitor immediately outside the courtroom and I just fell apart, begging him to let me speak to the judge to reconsider (desperate broken wife here ...

Christmas Chaos

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Devastated with a custodial sentence today

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49

RE: Devastated with a custodial sentence today

Thanks so much for all the comforting responses. I'm still in a bit of shock but I know I need to get my head together and be strong for my daughter first and my husband second. Anger is definitely setting in aswel. I'm angry at my husband, at the judge, at ...

Confusedwife

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
Telling parents

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10

RE: Telling parents

I haven't told my parents I haven't been able to bring myself to tell them, my husband was arrested at work nearly 3 months ago now for iioc he was on an app called kik.

he has been bailed twice and now he is on RUI, SS were involved closed our case ...

edel2020

Category:
Discussion and support

Topic:
New research

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9

RE: New research

The review says something really important, about how you define who is a P.

"A common myth depicts IIOC users as paedophilic in nature, meaning that they are expected to have a sexually preferential interest in children"

The important word here is "preferential". If you look at the people who self identify as ...

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