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Sad&Scared
RE: voyeurism
Its a pretty common sexual offence, aided by technological advances. When my ex was pulled in for IIOC the police also discovered that he'd been filming me secretly for some time (bedroom & bathroom). Depressingly enough I was relieved it was 'only' me - thankfully no evidence of him offending in ...
Sad&Scared
RE: How Do We Safely Align These Experiences/Views?
I find this interesting in that I genuinely don't recognise the thread under discussion from your description of it. Anyway, a few thoughts in no particular order, from someone who has now clocked up 2.5 years on this Forum. I'm coming at this from the perspective of someone whose OH offended. ...
edel2020
RE: Understanding Wrongdoing
Telegram is a lot like kik, because users think it is totally anonymous and it allows spammers to send unsolicited stuff, such as malware, links to crypto scams and porn.
But there are two red flags for me. Why would somebody be using kik or Telegram in the first place? If they ...
But there are two red flags for me. Why would somebody be using kik or Telegram in the first place? If they ...
edel2020
RE: Understanding Wrongdoing
I would want to know the context. What was he doing when this folder downloaded? Was he using any particular apps, like kik for example? How did it arrive? By email, or as a result of him clicking on something?
You say it was sent to him and that he also downloaded ...
You say it was sent to him and that he also downloaded ...
edel2020
RE: Frustrated that this exists
It is a somewhat misleading statement, that emerged many years ago, that we are all somehow just a few clicks from iioc.
If you are looking for iioc, then you can find it with just a few clicks. That is what the statement really means. It does not mean that anyone who ...
If you are looking for iioc, then you can find it with just a few clicks. That is what the statement really means. It does not mean that anyone who ...
Holdingthegrenade
RE: Random Chat
Mine was caught on kik
but I suspect it started on general social media apps where he was then introduced to other sites.....
he had tried to delete apps and come off social media in the past/run up to being caught. Was arrested for conversations with decoy and later found images (no ...
but I suspect it started on general social media apps where he was then introduced to other sites.....
he had tried to delete apps and come off social media in the past/run up to being caught. Was arrested for conversations with decoy and later found images (no ...
Wtah
Stopping contact?
My ex (split 2019) got arrested June 2025, so it's been roughly 7 months. When he told me why he got arrested he said someone had sent him one picture on KIK, it saved automatically on his phone but he deleted it straight away. Later in the conversation he said he ...
Scared26
Random Chat
Hi all
im new here. Scared of writing things down and saying it out loud. Wanted to hear about others experiences of these "random" chat rooms? How did your persons end up being caught - were they regular chat users eg Chat IW ? From what I hear- a lot of people ...
im new here. Scared of writing things down and saying it out loud. Wanted to hear about others experiences of these "random" chat rooms? How did your persons end up being caught - were they regular chat users eg Chat IW ? From what I hear- a lot of people ...
Sadtimes
RE: Struggling
I feel exactly the same as you, in a whirlwind of emotions and in disbelief at the situation,
trying to make sense of all this is so difficult, I am so angry that he has turned my life upside down like this, I have decided I can't be in the relationship ...
trying to make sense of all this is so difficult, I am so angry that he has turned my life upside down like this, I have decided I can't be in the relationship ...
Sad&Scared
RE: Speaking to my MP
I don't think shutting down one platform will make any difference. The men who use kik will just move somewhere else which the police had less of an eye on. My ex was on Kik, but I don't blame Kik. It was his choice to cheat online and offline, to ...
